live a life of love...

what about when life doesn't come with detailed instructions.
what about when trying to do the right thing doesn't seem like it helps anyone or makes any difference.
what do i do then?

be thankful for people around me who love me?
keep trying to obey?
keep praying?

that's all i can figure out.
will you pray for me for wisdom, for obedience, for love like Him please?
thank you =)